Ordinary Days, Extraordinary Grace

Can anyone honestly say that their first six months of marriage were totally ordinary?

In one sense, these past six months have been wonderfully ordinary—lectures, church, grocery shopping, washing up, paying bills, trying to keep the apartment clean, and learning how to live together. But in another sense, learning to share every ordinary day with the person you have chosen to knit your life together with is anything but ordinary.

These past six months have been filled with joys, disappointments, sickness, study, ministry, paperwork, holidays, and plenty of opportunities to learn to trust the Lord together. Looking back, we can see that while many of our days felt very ordinary, God has been extraordinarily gracious in every one of them.

Learning to Be One

Marriage has been one of God's greatest gifts to us, but also one of His greatest classrooms.

On Saturdays, Nich makes us pancakes for brekky - what a legend!

We love one another deeply and are continually thankful for the strengths and personalities God has given each of us. We complement each other in so many ways, and yet those very differences can also become sources of frustration. The first six months have involved learning not just how to share a home, but how to share our whole lives.

Both of us spent many years single. We learned to carry our burdens to the Lord individually, to process emotions alone, and to navigate life's challenges independently. Suddenly, there is another person always present—watching, caring, wanting to help, sometimes not knowing how, saying or doing awkward things in an effort to love well!

When you add the pressures of college, ministry, finances, visa applications, and months of sickness, some of those ordinary days simply became hard days. Yet those have also become some of God's greatest classrooms. Our wedding vows have quickly moved from beautiful words spoken on one joyful afternoon to daily opportunities to love one another "for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health."

Lots of prayer, long conversations, encouragement from family and friends, and opening God's Word together have been His means of grace to us. We are learning to listen before trying to fix. We are learning to ask for help rather than carry everything ourselves. We are learning to pray together and for one another. We are learning that love often looks less like grand gestures and more like daily sacrifice.

I am deeply thankful for Nich as he seeks to lead our little family faithfully. It has been a privilege watching him grow through both the joys and pressures of this new season.

Growing in Knowledge... and Dependence

College resumed in February with another full semester of learning.

Semester One included New Testament 3, where we studied the Pastoral Epistles, working through 1 Timothy and Titus while putting our Greek to good use. We also began Church History 3, exploring the European Reformation before moving towards the English Reformation later this year.

Doctrine 3 certainly stretched me! We spent much of the semester wrestling with the doctrines of grace and thinking carefully through God's work in salvation. Nich absolutely loves this sort of theological thinking. I found it challenging but deeply encouraging. It encouraged me to give thanks for the generations of faithful Christians who have thought carefully through these doctrines and reminded me that my confidence ultimately rests not in understanding every divine mystery, but in Christ Himself. By grace alone, through faith alone, I belong to Him.

Ministry & Mission 3 provided wonderful opportunities to think through practical ministry questions surrounding complementarianism, gender and sexuality, and intercultural ministry. As Semester One concluded, we also began Moral Theology and Old Testament 3, studying the Psalms before moving into Job this semester.

Although the subjects themselves were engaging, I personally found the semester far more difficult than I anticipated. Ongoing exhaustion and illness made it increasingly difficult to keep up with studies. By the end of the semester, I made the difficult decision to reduce my study load in order to better steward my health and capacity.

That wasn't the plan I had imagined for this year, but it has been another reminder that dependence upon God often grows most in seasons when our own strength is limited. A New Church Family

This year also brought a change in church home as Nich began his student ministry placement at St Jude's.

It has meant adjusting to new people, new rhythms, and a different style of church life. St Jude's is more traditional than the churches we have previously attended, with morning Prayer Book services followed by a slightly more contemporary evening congregation.

Nich supports the senior ministers in leading the morning services and has several opportunities to preach throughout the year. Preaching three services in one day is no small task! It leaves him physically, mentally and emotionally spent, but it has also been an incredible opportunity for him to grow as a preacher and pastor. I am very proud of him and encouraged by the ways he loves our church community. He is particularly focused on growing our young adults ministry.

Young adults lunch with St. Judes crew.

Meanwhile, I have loved getting involved across the three congregations and getting to know the people who make up our new church family. We have been so thankful for the warmth and kindness we've experienced, and I have even had a few lovely ladies from the 9:30 congregation trying to recruit me to the Wednesday craft club!

When I'm able, I enjoy serving in the evening congregation by helping at Kids' Church, singing, reading the Bible, and leading prayers. Ongoing fatigue has meant I haven't always had the capacity to serve as I previously did, and that has been an adjustment. Yet God has been gently teaching me that serving His people isn't limited to being "up the front." Supporting Nich throughout the day, sharing morning tea between services, welcoming newcomers, and taking time to chat with church members have all become meaningful ways to love and serve our church family. It's been a helpful reminder that faithful service often happens in the ordinary, unseen moments. Ministry in the Bush

In March, we joined the Moore College and Bush Church Aid mission team, travelling to Lightning Ridge.

Unfortunately, both of us became quite unwell during the mission. We were disappointed not to be able to participate as fully as we had hoped, and found it difficult to watch others serve while we had so little capacity ourselves. But our team worked incredibly hard and were so gracious towards us.

Even so, God reminded us that ministry is never ultimately about what we accomplish. Sometimes faithfulness simply looks like trusting Him when we have very little to offer. In the end, I led the music for two Sundays at a small church in Walgett and gave a talk at the women's event in Lightning Ridge on the woman at the well. Nich took a leading role in Kid's Club at Walgett as a superhero, and we were both able to take part in the school Scripture Club at a local school!

Rest Along the Way

After such an intense and full semester, God kindly provided opportunities for rest.

We spent a few days in Armidale with friends, enjoying the slower pace of country life and taking some much-needed time away from Sydney. It was a gift simply to rest, recover, and enjoy being together.

Later, we travelled to the Sunshine Coast for the Bush Church Aid Field Staff Conference. Every two years BCA gathers missionaries serving across regional, rural, and remote Australia for encouragement and fellowship. As one of the BCA bursary recipients, Nich was invited to attend.

It was a tremendous blessing to hear stories of faithful ministry across Australia. More than one missionary was keen to convince us that their corner of the country was where we should serve after college! While we still have another year of study ahead before making those decisions, the conference helped us begin praying more intentionally about where and how God might have us serve in the years to come. A Door Opened

Another significant milestone over the past few months has been the completion of my Partner Visa application.

Changing my name and preparing the application was almost a full-time job in itself! There were countless forms, supporting documents, and large expenses along the way, but God has faithfully provided every step.

The application has now been submitted, and we begin the long wait for processing. It is a great relief to have reached this stage, and we would love your continued prayers as we wait for the outcome. Looking Ahead

As we look toward the rest of the year, we continue to trust God with many unknowns.

Though I have deferred my studies for the rest of this year, there is more study ahead for both Nich and me. Nich is enrolling in his 4th year of college in 2027, and I hope to pick up my deferred 3rd-year classes. Decisions about future ministry beyond college are still in the works as we continue to pray about BCA ministry opportunities and the ordinary rhythms of life that continue each day.

Looking back over these first six months of marriage, we can honestly say that they haven't always been easy. But they have been deeply good. God has faithfully sustained us through ordinary days that have quietly shaped us in ways we never expected. One More Extraordinary Gift of Grace

And, as it turns out, while we were busy navigating lectures, ministry, sickness, holidays, and visa paperwork, God was quietly preparing one more extraordinary gift of His grace...

We're delighted to share that, Lord willing, we'll be welcoming our first little baby this October!

The first few months of this year were marked by persistent exhaustion, nausea, and overwhelming fatigue. We were both daunted and delighted to learn early on that we were expecting our first baby, but I quickly discovered that pregnancy was far more physically demanding than I had imagined. I found myself grieving the loss of energy and capacity I had taken for granted. By March and April, simply getting through college, church, and everyday life often felt like more than enough. My incapacity also put a lot of strain on Nich; he has been a great support from the very start, but exhausted! Pregnancy is an incredible gift, but it has also been one of the most physically demanding seasons I have experienced.

One of the unexpected lessons God has been teaching me throughout this season is that weakness is not necessarily a sign of failure. I've often measured faithfulness by how much I can do, how much I can serve, or how productive I can be. Pregnancy has lovingly challenged those assumptions. The physical limitations, the need to rest, and the inability to keep doing everything I once could have all become invitations to depend more deeply on the Lord.

Nich reading the bible to baby :)

I've recently been reading Bringing Forth Life by Jodie McIver, which has helped me see pregnancy in a way I hadn't considered before. Again and again, it points me to Christ. Growing new life within me has become a daily reminder that God often accomplishes His most extraordinary work through what the world would call weakness.

The cross itself appeared, to many, to be the ultimate picture of weakness and defeat. Yet there, through Christ's willing sacrifice, God displayed His power and glory most fully, carrying our sin, labouring on the cross in our place so that we might be born into new life as His redeemed children. Pregnancy is, of course, only a faint echo of that greater reality, but carrying a new life has helped me appreciate the self-giving love of our Saviour afresh. The weariness, the waiting, and the daily cost have all become small reminders that love often involves joyful sacrifice.

Far from being a season of wasted strength, these months have become a season of extraordinary grace. God has reminded me that my worth isn't found in my productivity but in belonging to Christ. Even in weakness, He is faithfully at work—bringing forth life in more ways than one.

We are incredibly thankful for this precious little life God has entrusted to us and would love your prayers over the coming months. Please pray for a healthy remainder of the pregnancy, for wisdom as we prepare to become parents, and above all, that our child would one day come to know and love the Lord Jesus for themselves.

Truly, these have been ordinary days filled with extraordinary grace. Partnering with us in Prayer

Over the years, this space has been a wonderful way to share updates with friends and family and to invite people to pray with us through the different seasons God has led us through. As our family grows, we’re moving our updates to a more private space where we can share more personally, including photos and updates of our growing family. We’re also bringing our various prayer and support networks together in one place, making it easier for us to stay connected and keep everyone updated. So, this will be my final blog post on this platform.

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email list, I’ll simply copy you across to our new joint newsletter. If you haven’t subscribed, we’d love for you to join us by subscribing below: Nich & Britt’s Prayer Letter. This will be the best way to keep up with our ministry life, hear how you can be praying, and see some photos of baby Powell!

Although my formal studies are beginning to wind down, this is not the end of our ministry journey, but the beginning of a new chapter. The training, relationships and experiences God has given us through this season are preparing us for future ministry opportunities, including our desire to serve and invest in rural Australia. As we continue to grow and serve together, we would love you to prayerfully consider continuing to partner with us through prayer and financial support as we seek to faithfully serve Christ and prepare for the ministry ahead.

Thank you so much for the many ways you have supported, encouraged and prayed for us over these years. We’re incredibly grateful for the people God has placed around us, and for the privilege of having so many of you walking alongside us as we seek to faithfully serve Christ together.

Please praise God with us for:

• The incredible gift of this little life and the privilege of becoming parents. We are so thankful for this child and for the ways God has been growing and shaping us through this season. We are also grateful for the reminder that God’s strength is often displayed through our weakness and dependence on Him.

• The generous support and encouragement God has provided through family, friends, church, and college. We are especially thankful that my mum will be able to come from Bermuda to help us after the baby arrives in October and November. We are so grateful for the gift of having family close during those early weeks of parenthood, especially as Nich prepares for his final college exams shortly after the baby is due.

• God’s faithful provision through all the changes and uncertainties of this season. From navigating health challenges, changing study loads, visa applications, and new ministry opportunities, we have seen God’s kindness in providing exactly what we have needed each step of the way.

Please pray with us for:

• A healthy pregnancy, safe delivery, and a smooth transition into parenthood. Pray for wisdom and grace as we prepare to welcome our baby in October, for my mum as she travels from Bermuda to support us in those early weeks, and for Nich as he balances becoming a dad with completing his final college exams.

• Wisdom and clarity as we look ahead to future ministry. Pray for Nich as he completes his final year of college in 2027, and for both of us as we prayerfully consider where and how God might have us serve with Bush Church Aid after college.

• Our travels to Bermuda in December with our newborn baby. Pray for safety as we make this significant journey, for a joyful time reconnecting with family, and for wisdom as we navigate international travel with a little one. We are especially thankful for this opportunity, as it may be our last major trip home for several years.

Thank you for your faithful support and prayers.

In Christ Alone,

Nich and Britt (and baby Powell)